How I Accidentally Built a Life of Self-Doubt Without Even Realizing It

For a long time, I thought my low self-confidence was just the truth.

Like gravity. Like taxes. Like baldness. Just... there.

But what I didn’t see — not for years — was that I was the one feeding it, keeping it alive. You know, like that plant from Little Shop of Horrors.

Nobody sat me down and said, "Hey, Brian, here’s your official list of F**k Ups and …